Anal Sex or Anal Intercourse, is intercourse via the anus.
The anal area is rich in nerve endings making anal sex extremely exciting and pleasurable to women.
Some couples find anal sex completely natural, however, there are other couples who dislike the idea, considering it unhygienic and even painful…
…so it is important your woman is okay with the idea of having anal intercourse before you thread that path.
A good lubricant is essential during anal intercourse
Bear in mind that the anus doesn’t provide a natural lubricant.
So make sure you use lots of lubricant designed for anal play.
Make sure your woman is relaxed and penetrate slowly and gently
Before you venture into anal intercourse or anal sex, it is vital that your woman is relaxed and sexually ready.
Anal intercourse when done wrong can hurt and cause tears and abrasions to the lining of the rectum.
So the key to anal intercourse without pain or tears and abrasions is to start out by stretching the anus slowly and to use lots of anal lubricant.
Take penetration very slowly and gently… and pay close attention to your woman’s reaction and make adjustments when necessary.
The process… stretching the anus to penile penetration
Start out by warming your woman up with foreplay… passionately kiss and caress her body.
Next, move on to caressing her genitals… then move on to stroking around her anal area.
Make sure your fingernails are neat and well-trimmed to avoid bruising her anus.
Moisten your fingers and your partner’s anus with a suitable anal lubricant before inserting your finger into her anus.
Now, insert the tip of your finger into the anus and move your finger around in circles to stretch the entrance to the anus.
Gradually make your movements firmer and check to make sure that your woman is enjoying the experience in order to proceed to the next stage… penetrating her anus with your penis.
When penetrating the anus with your penis, penetrate slowly and gently.
To make anal intercourse more comfortable, pause as you penetrate your woman so that she can consciously relax her anus.
Hint: Some women are profoundly turned on by a combination of anal penetration and clitoral stimulation.
Read More: How to Have Anal Intercourse with Your Woman
Anal sex toys are very effective
There are now several sex toys specifically designed to penetrate the anus comfortably and provide a woman with an exciting and pleasurable anal experience. [Click here to see sex toys specially designed for the anus]
Wash your penis first before going on to vaginal sex
When it comes to sex, the most basic hygiene rule is not to let anything that touches the anus go on to touch the female genitals…
…this way, you prevent the transmission of anal bacteria to the vagina or the urethra.
So this means, wash the penis after it has touched the anus and before you move on to vaginal intercourse, and disinfect any sex toys that have been in contact with the anus.
It is vital to be scrupulous about genital hygiene during lovemaking sessions that involve anal sex… it is vital to ensure that you never go on to vaginal sex without careful washing first.
Err on the side of caution
- Anal sex can cause tears and abrasions to the lining of the rectum, which provides a route in for bacteria and viruses. So when you’re looking to have anal sex with your woman, you should use plenty of lubricant that is specially designed for anal intercourse.
- Take things very slowly and gently, and watch your woman’s reaction in order to make adjustments when necessary.
- Never go directly on to vaginal penetration or intercourse without washing first.
So there you have it… anal sex.
Anal sex can be an extremely exciting and pleasurable sexual experience.
However, not all women find anal sex completely natural or hygienic… some women also consider anal intercourse painful.
So never force your woman to have anal sex if she doesn’t want to.
Even if she objects to stroking around the outside of her anus, you may just have to accept that it really doesn’t appeal to her.
Sometimes a woman will feel uncomfortable with the idea of trying anal sex but will agree to give it a try later.
If this is the case with your woman, take it extremely slowly and gentle… and guarantee that you will stop as soon as she asks you to.
It is important your woman is okay with the idea of having anal intercourse before you thread that path.
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