One of the most amazing things you can do that will set you way apart from other men is to know how to make a girl or a woman squirt… and get her to experience a squirting orgasm.
And nothing beats this one.
In this article, I share with you how to make a girl or a woman squirt.
I begin by busting the myth surrounding squirting or female ejaculation. You are going to learn what the fluid really is, where it comes from and how squirting or ejaculation happens for a woman or a girl.
Then, we get to the meat of this post… how to make a girl or a woman squirt. Here, I share with you how to make a girl or a woman squirt with your fingers and how to make a girl or a woman squirt during sexual intercourse (with your penis).
I throw in how to ramp up a woman’s sexual excitement and make her squirt and experience a squirting orgasm faster.
I also share with you some sex toys you can add to your sexual repertoire to give your woman or your girl a pleasurable squirting experience.
Without further ado, let’s get started.
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Before you learn how to make a girl or a woman squirt, let’s first bust the myth surrounding female squirting or female ejaculation.
Can all girls and women squirt?
Yes, they can.
Every girl or woman is capable of squirting during sex… and the orgasm they have before or during their ejaculation is more intense than any other orgasm.
In fact, your girl or woman may be ejaculating and she might not know it.
Female ejaculate or squirt comes in many forms…
…the amount of fluid a woman ejaculates can vary from only a few drops to squirting across the room and wetting an entire bed.
The amount of fluid and your woman ability to squirt into the air depends on her level of arousal, the type of stimulation, and the strength of her PC muscle.
Women with strong PC muscles not only squirt farther but experiences more powerful squirting orgasms simultaneously.
(Kegel Exercises designed for women will strengthen your woman’s PC muscle and make it easy for her to ejaculate more fluid and squirt farther.)
Some girls and women even mistake an impending ejaculation as the urge to pee and hold it back for fear of drenching the bed. This is one of the reasons most women don’t squirt.
How do girls or women squirt?
The G-spot plays a vital role in squirting or female ejaculation.
Even though a girl or a woman can squirt from clitoral stimulation, it is more common with G-spot stimulation.
With that out of the way, let’s move on.
The G-spot plays a vital role in female ejaculation.
Busting the myths and misconceptions that surround squirting
Most men and women alike believe that women don’t ejaculate and that they are just peeing.
This is false.
Studies have proven that the fluid a woman or a girl ejaculates is not urine… it is a clear or milky, slippery fluid different from that of urine.
It is released from her Skene’s gland found in the G-spot area along the walls of the urethra.
During sexual arousal and intense G-spot stimulation, the Skene’s gland fills with the fluid and empties into the urethral canal.
(The urethral canal is the duct through which urine is discharged… and because this is where urine comes from, female ejaculation is going to have that same sensation as urine. Men also have the duct which carries both urine and semen.)
It is at this point that a woman will feel the urge to squirt or ejaculate… and hence flex her PC muscle and prevent herself from squirting or ejaculating…
…thinking she is about to pee.
A girl or a woman cannot pee when she is amply aroused
This is the same with men…
…it is impossible for a man to urinate when he has a full erection.
During arousal the sphincter muscle contracts to close off the bladder. This makes it impossible for urine to come out.
Remind your woman to pee before you have sex to avoid worrying about peeing.
To help her enjoy this explosive experience, talk to her and let her know it is normal.
Tell her to feel free to let go of her PC muscle even if she thinks that it is pee.
Tell her it will turn you on to see her soak the bed.
When you notice she is holding back during sex, encourage her to let go of her PC muscle.
Reassure her she is not going to pee.
Tell her she is going to squirt… so she should relax her PC muscle and push out. And when she does, she will experience an incredible orgasm.
Important stuff to know
Before we move on to the steps on how to make a girl or a woman squirt, you have to keep in mind of the following and follow them appropriately:
- For a woman who has difficulty squirting, she will need a full body massage. This will work out the tension spot in her body to get the blood flowing properly.
- A woman needs to be relaxed and comfortable with you to let herself go. If she is thinking about her grocery list or something that happened at work, she will have difficulties squirting. Plus, to break through any psychological barriers, especially if she’s a new partner, she needs to feel safe and comfortable with you.
- Your woman needs to be fully aroused before going down south. So start out from foreplay… spend at least 20 minutes making out to get her fully aroused. It will even be easier for her to squirt if she is more orgasmic… so why not get her orgasmic by giving her a clitoral orgasm after the heavy foreplay. [Read ‘How to Stimulate The Clitoris’ and ‘How to Give a Girl or a Woman a Clitoral Orgasm’]
- Have some towels around. Your girl is really going to make a mess… so be prepared.
With that said, let’s get started on how to make a girl or a woman squirt.
How to Make a Girl or a Woman Squirt with Your Fingers
Here’s how to get a girl to squirt with your fingers:
Step #1 – Lubricate your fingers and make sure your hands are clean and your fingernails are well-trimmed and smooth at the edges. Use lots of lubes.
Step #2 – Have your girl lay flat on her back with her feet flat on the bed and legs wide open. You can put a pillow under her butt to give you better access to her pussy.
Step #3 – Position yourself to her side or between her legs. Just get into a comfortable position that will help you get access to her pussy.
Step #4 – Insert your middle finger into the vagina and find the G-spot. With your palm facing up, press the pad of your finger against the front vaginal wall and feel for the G-spot. You should be able to feel the G-spot after the heavy foreplay and oral sex (cunnilingus). The G-spot is located about 1 – 2 inches inside the vagina along the upper vaginal wall (directly behind her pubic bone). It will be raised and puffy… and it will be easily felt because it will be engorged and hard to miss when the woman is aroused. [Read how to find the G-spot]
Stroking the G-spot leads to female ejaculation or squirting.
Assuming you skipped foreplay and cunnilingus…
…or you can’t feel the G-spot yet.
Again, the G-spot should be easily felt after a heavy foreplay and cunnilingus… but assuming you skipped foreplay and cunnilingus or you can’t feel the G-spot yet, continue from step #5 below:
Step #5 – Gently massage the front vaginal wall to ‘coax out’ the G-spot. Insert your middle finger and massage the front vaginal wall or the G-spot area… in circular strokes, side-to-side, or back and forth (come hither motion). The whole front wall of the vagina is wondrously sensitive. This will get your woman more and more aroused and the G-spot will start to swell and firm up.
The G-spot should be easily felt after a heavy foreplay and oral sex.
Make your woman squirt…
Step #6 – Now, insert your two middle fingers into the vagina. With your palm facing up, press the pad of your fingers against the G-spot and stimulate it in a ‘come hither’ motion. With a firm moderate pressure at a moderate speed, curl your finger and move it back and forth. [Read how to stimulate the G-spot]
Step #7 – Some women respond best to double stimulation. So stroke her G-Spot and clitoris simultaneously to get her more aroused. Even though some women can squirt or ejaculate only with G-spot or A-spot stimulation, others squirt when their G-spot and clit are stimulated simultaneously. [Read how to find the clitoris]
Step #8 – Gradually increase your stroking movements when you can tell she is getting more and more aroused… from her moaning and body language. Apply more pressure at a faster rate… curling your finger and moving it back and forth in a ‘come hither’ motion.
Step #9 – Take out your fingers when you feel she is starting to push you out of her. The contraction of vaginal muscles and the push signals she is about to ejaculate. Remove your fingers and it will be followed by a squirt.
Hint: When removing your finger, put pressure against her G-spot like you are pulling it out, and it will cause her to ejaculate.
Step #10 – Put your fingers back immediately after she ejaculates… and then stimulate her some more and wait until you feel her push out again. You can do this over and over again and see her squirt all over you.
So that’s how to make a girl or a woman squirt or how to make your girl squirt with your fingers.
Now, let’s take a look at how to make a girl or a woman squirt during sex with your penis.
How to Make a Girl or a Woman Squirt During Sexual Intercourse
As you penetrate your woman, angle your penis towards her G-Spot.
There a several sex positions and sexual postures that aim your penis for a direct hit to the front vaginal wall, where the G-spot is located.
But the two positions that work best are:
- The missionary position (when slightly adjusted)
- The cowgirl (woman on top) position
With the right posture, you should be able to hit or rub against the G-spot and make your woman squirt and experience a squirting orgasm.
Again, the G-spot is what leads to female ejaculation or squirting… and since the G-spot is located about 1 -2 inches on the front wall of the vagina, your penetrations or thrusting movements should be shallow.
Rub against her G-spot as you thrust in and out of her… and remember to stimulate her clitoris with your fingers if you can.
Let’s go into detail…
Your thrusting movements should be shallow when looking to make your woman squirt during sexual intercourse.
How to Make a Girl or a Woman Squirt in the Missionary Position
(The missionary position is the sex position where the woman lies on her back with her legs spread or opened, and the man gets on top of her and in-between her legs.)
This is the best position to make a woman squirt.
Let your woman lie on her back as usual.
Penetrate her slowly and give her some few strokes to get her warmed up.
In a typical missionary position, you lie face-to-face and make love to her…
…but instead of lying face-to-face with your woman, kneel and put her feet on your chest or put her legs on your shoulders.
This sexual posture alters the angle of penetration and puts the head of your penis right beneath the G-spot.
You can also put a firm pillow under her bottom to raise her hips. (See image below)
Penetration and thrusting movements should be shallow.
This means, instead of thrusting in deep INTO her with your full manhood, thrust shallow…
…and aim for the front vaginal wall, where the G-spot is located.
Start slow and gradually increase the speed as the sex progresses… directly hitting her front vaginal wall.
When you can tell she is enjoying it, give it to her fast and hard and she will be squirting all over you.
Another variation of the ‘legs-on-shoulders’ or ‘foot-to-chest’ posture is when you are standing and ‘doing her’ on the bed or on a high table or counter. This is the best position to make her squirt. (See image below)
How to Make a Girl or a Woman Squirt with Your Penis When She Is On Top, Cowgirl Style
This is another best position to make a girl squirt.
Here’s how to make a girl or a woman squirt when she climbs on top:
Have her lean backward, with her hands on your calves for support, and feet on the sofa by your side.
This sexual posture aims your penis for a direct hit to her most sensitive front vaginal wall, where her G-spot is. (See image below)
Thrust short and shallow, directly hitting her G-spot.
Bear in mind, your woman is the boss in this position… and she is in charge of satisfying herself.
So let her take control of the thrusting movements – especially if she knows where her G-spot is.
In this sexual posture, your woman is in complete control of the angle you penetrate, and how fast and hard she wants it. And she can apply the right friction against her G-spot and make herself squirt.
So that’s how to make a girl or a woman squirt during sex.
There a several sex positions and sexual postures that aim your penis for a direct hit to the front vaginal wall, where the G-spot is located.
Ramp up your woman sexual excitement…
…by talking romantically or dirty to her.
This is also how to make her squirt… and it is very powerful.
Dirty talk will get her turned on and ready to squirt.
When fingering her, say something like:
- “Your tits look so sexy”
- “You love it when I finger your pussy, don’t you baby?”
- “It feels so good when I finger your pussy”
- “That feels so good, doesn’t it?”
- “You want to cum hard for me, don’t you?”
- “Cum for me baby, come hard. Come right now”
Most women are self-conscious about their pussy… so tell her how soft and beautiful her pussy is and how good she tastes down there.
This will get her to relax and enjoy your fingers inside her.
Say something like:
- “You smell so good”
- “Your pussy is so sexy”
- “Your wetness makes me so hard”
During penetrative sex, you can say something like:
- “Your pussy is so wet for me”
- “Your pussy is so tight”
- “This feels so good for you, doesn’t it?”
- “Your pussy feels so good”
- “You love it when I fuck you hard”
- “You want to come hard for me don’t you?”
- “Come really hard for me”
Now, let’s take a lot at how to make a girl or a woman squirt with a sex toy.
Sex toys for G-spot stimulation
G-Spot vibrators are great sex toys to intensify your bedroom repertoire with your woman in order to make her squirt.
They are easily identified by the way their shaft sharply curves or twists near the tip.
This allows for optimal pleasure and consequently, leads to female ejaculation.
Vibrators have the ability to deliver amazing sensations and the motor located directly in the tip makes it easier for even first-time sex toy users to find and stimulate their G-spot.
Below are some vibrators I recommend for G-spot stimulation that will leave your woman soaking wet:
- Magic wand vibrators
- Dual G-spot & clitoris stimulators
- Silver bullet & egg style vibrators
- Rabbit style vibrators
- G-spot stimulators
How do you know when a woman is ready to squirt?
You will know when she is about to squirt or ejaculate when you feel her vaginal muscles tightening around your fingers or penis and she is pushing out.
When you feel her pushing out, quickly remove whatever it’s inside her and ejaculation will follow.
If you have your fingers, a dildo, or a penis inside of her while she is pushing out or orgasming, take it out to allow the ejaculate to come out.
Go back in immediately after she ejaculates and stimulate her some more and wait until you feel her push out again.
You can do this over and over again and she can keep ejaculating all over you.
Keep Reading: How to Give Your Girl or Woman a Vaginal Orgasm
Trouble-shooting your woman ejaculation
Most women have difficulties squirting
Here, they will need a full body massage to work out the tension spots in their body to get the blood flowing properly.
Built up stress and tension blocks the flow of blood and negatively impact a woman’s ability to squirt (or have an orgasm).
A nice full body massage is a great way to help her body relieve all the built-up stress and tension so that blood can flow through her body freely.
So make sure you give her frequent relaxing, massage to get her body and muscles to open up and relax and she will start having more frequent and powerful squirting orgasms.
So there you have it… how to make a girl or a woman squirt with your fingers, how to make a girl or a woman squirt during sexual intercourse, and how to make a girl or a woman squirt using sex toys.
You can turn your woman into a ‘squirter’.
Your girl or woman first squirt is an experience she will remember for the rest of her life. And nothing any other guy does will have any comparison.
It will bring you closer together and get her sexually addicted to you.
Unfortunately, so many guys do not know the right techniques to use when it comes to making a girl or a woman squirt.
It takes some men years of trial and error to discover how to make a girl or a woman squirt. But you have the tools and knowledge to make it a reality for your woman.
Your woman’s first squirt can be a few drops. But you can guide her and lead her to ejaculate more fluid and squirt farther.
Congratulate her even if it is just a tiny bit. The more you praise her often times, the more she will ejaculate.
Encourage her to do Kegel Exercises to strengthen her PC muscle. This way she can squirt more fluids and have powerful squirting orgasms simultaneously.
Do Kegel exercises yourself. Strengthening your ejaculatory muscle will give you a stronger erection. With a stronger erection, you can apply the right kind of pressure to your woman G-spot and prime her for squirting orgasms. [Read how to do Kegel exercises for men]
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