How to Stimulate the G-Spot

How to Stimulate the G-Spot

It behooves every man to learn how to stimulate the G-spot.

The G-spot is an erogenous zone located inside a woman’s vagina… when stimulated in the right way, produces intense sensations and a powerful G-spot orgasm.

Did you know that the G-spot plays a vital role in female ejaculation a.k.a. ‘squirting’?


A woman can ejaculate and experience an ejaculatory or squirting orgasm when her G-spot is stimulated.

It takes some men months of trial and error to discover how to stimulate the G-spot. But the good news is you can learn it overnight.

In this post, I share with you how to stimulate the G-spot.

Be warned…

When you are able to give your woman a G-spot orgasm or an explosive squirting orgasm, she will be sexually addicted to you and she will walk through fire to make sure you too receive as much pleasure as she did.

With that said, let’s get started.

Before going further, you should know where the G-spot is located.

So where is the G-spot?

The female G-spot is located 1-2 inches inside a woman’s vagina, up along the upper vaginal wall…

…directly behind the pubic bone or mon pubis.

The only way to feel its existence is when the woman is fully aroused.

When a woman is aroused, the G-spot swells and becomes larger.

So spend enough time on foreplay… or give your woman a clitoral orgasm before you go searching for the G-spot. [Read how to give a girl or a woman a clitoral orgasm]

Once your woman is sexually aroused, insert your middle finger 1-2 inches inside her vagina. And with your palm facing up, press the pad of your finger against the upper vaginal wall and feel around.

You will feel a slightly raised, puffy spot… that’s the G-spot. [Read how to find the G-spot]

How to Stimulate the G-Spot
When you are able to give your woman a G-spot orgasm or an explosive squirting orgasm, she will walk through fire to make sure you too receive as much pleasure as she did.

Before stimulating the G-spot

  1. Spend at least 20 minutes on foreplay… make out a lot to get her sexually excited.
  2. Lubricate your fingers. But first, make sure your hands are clean and your fingernails are well-trimmed and smooth at the edges.
  3. Have her lay flat on her back with her feet flat on the bed and legs open. You can put a pillow under her butt to give you better access to her genitals.
  4. Have some towels around… some women ejaculate (or squirt) upon orgasm.
  5. Insert your middle finger inside her vagina and gently massage the G-spot area. This will get her more and more aroused and the G-spot will start to swell up (if not already).

Now, let’s get started…

How to stimulate the G-spot with your fingers

There are several ways to stimulate the G-spot…

…but the best way is the ‘Come Hither’ motion.

This is where you stimulate the G-spot from behind, with a firm pressure… as if you are gesturing someone to come to you.

Now you know where the G-spot is…

Insert your lubricated middle finger inside your woman’s vagina.

You can use both your index and middle finger.

Apply moderate pressure, at a moderate speed, in a ‘come hither’ motion.

You can press down on her pubic mound with your other palm as you are rubbing the G-spot.

When you can tell your woman is getting more aroused and getting closer to orgasm, increase the pressure and the speed.

You will feel her vaginal muscle tightening around your fingers. This is a good sign that tells you she is getting close to orgasm. Keep going and she will have a powerful orgasm.

You can also try different strokes and caresses. You can tap firmly and repeatedly on the G-spot. Rub it in circles, or stroke it from left to right like a windshield wiper stroke. But when you can tell she is approaching orgasm, use the ‘come hither’ motion. [Learn the fingering techniques that open-her-up sexually and make her cry out with each move… in sheer orgasmic pleasure]

Read More: How to Finger Your Woman to Orgasmic Bliss

Stimulating the G-spot leads to female ejaculation

When stimulating your woman’s G-spot, she will feel the need to pee.

She will stop you or prevent herself from ejaculating (squirting). Thinking she is preventing herself from making a mess.

This is completely normal…

…so tell her to relax and let go. And she will experience a powerful orgasm she’s never experienced before.

Keep Reading: How to Give Your Woman a G-Spot Orgasm

How to Stimulate the G-Spot
Stimulation of the G-spot leads to female ejaculation.

There are sex toys to stimulate the G-spot

G-spot vibrators are also great toys to stimulate the G-spot.

Its curved tip allows for optimal pleasure and makes it easier for even first-time sex toy users to find and stimulate their erogenous zone.

If you are going to use a G-spot sex toy to stimulate the G-spot, as usual, make sure she is wet… if not, lubricate the tip of the sex toy.

Insert it into her vagina and mimic the finger stimulation (back and forth motion).

Keep Reading: How to Hit or Rub Against the G-spot During Sex


So there you have it – how to stimulate the G-spot using your finger and a sex toy.

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