Sex without foreplay is sexually selfish.
If you want to get your woman so turned on and so ready for sex, then this may be one of the most important posts you’ll ever read.
For most men, sex is all about placing their woman in the missionary position, penetrating the woman and thrusting their way to their own orgasm… thinking the woman’s sexual pleasure is basically the same thing as theirs.
This is not even close to being true.
It takes a man a short amount of time to get ready for sex…
…women are different.
Women need foreplay (preferably 20 minutes of foreplay) before they are ready for intercourse.
Sex without foreplay is sexually selfish
Many women complain about their men skipping foreplay to rush to intercourse.
They hate it when their men go straight for their goodies without first paying attention to their bodies.
To borrow a phrase from Anne Kooper, “there’s no place for lovers to be selfish — it’s all about giving”…
…and when giving when it comes to sex it starts from foreplay – making out, lavishing your woman’s body and getting her warmed up to the sex
It’s every woman’s desire that her man will kiss her passionately during sex, caress and kiss every inch of her body, take his time lavishing her body and then gradually move towards masturbating her with his tongue (cunnilingus).
Women want their man to appreciate how amazingly special and sexy they are.
Heading straight to penetrative sex is not what they expect from their partner at all.
If you want your woman to have an orgasm (and even multiple orgasms during sex), you will need to set a sexual atmosphere for her before you start having sex.
So spend a lot of time on foreplay before moving towards making love to your woman.
Now, how is having sex without foreplay land you in trouble?
Skip foreplay and your woman will not be fully aroused to even enjoy the sex
A lot of things happen during female arousal, including:
- The nipples becoming hard and erect and more sensitive
- The clitoris becoming swollen and larger
- The clitoris filling with blood and becoming more sensitive
- The vagina becoming moist and lubricated
- Blood rushing to the woman’s genitals causing the color of her genitals to become darker in color (this one is very important and it gives a woman much deeper pleasure during sex).
Foreplay is the tool that increases a woman’s level of sexual excitement and causes these physiological changes, allowing the woman to be highly aroused to have sexual intercourse – and to enjoy it.
Without spending time on foreplay, a woman’s clitoris and vagina will not get aroused enough and ready for stimulation and penetration.
…the woman will even take longer to orgasm
Yes, sex without foreplay will take your woman longer to reach an orgasm.
That’s why lots of men complain that it takes women longer time to reach an orgasm.
Foreplay is really necessary if you want to bring your woman to an orgasm faster.
Just like warming your car engine up in the morning before you shift the gear and get going, the same thing applies to women… you need to warm your woman up first and get her ready for intercourse.
Believe me; once you do this it will become very easy to bring your woman to an orgasm (and even multiple orgasms).
Spend enough time on foreplay and you’ll lower your woman’s threshold for orgasm
What does this mean? Threshold?
It takes the average woman 10-15 of penetrative sex to reach a vaginal orgasm.
Sure, you can give a woman a clitoral orgasm from oral faster than that. But to give your woman real penetration or vaginal orgasms… that takes a little longer.
Now, the good news… you can make your woman experience an orgasm very quickly…
…and foreplay sets the stage for that.
Your woman can have an orgasm during foreplay
If you think foreplay is just a prelude to intercourse – well, think again.
While you’re not capable of having an orgasm during foreplay, women can!
Yeah, you read that right.
Your woman can have an orgasm during foreplay…
…and I’m not referring to clitoral or vaginal.
If not, then what foreplay orgasm am I’m referring to here?
Yes, a woman can have breast orgasms from just touching her boobs and nipples in the right way.
So you would want to spend a lot of time on foreplay, do things right and not only prime your woman for orgasms during sex, but more importantly, give her the breast orgasm she deserves.
Do you have a problem lasting longer? Use foreplay to your advantage
I don’t need to tell you… but one of the biggest reasons why most men can’t give their woman orgasms (if you’ve been where I’ve been before, you’ve watched it happen time after time) is because they can last long enough during sex!
If you have a problem lasting longer during sex, you’ll need to spend a lot of time on foreplay.
Why is that?
…because foreplay not only gets a woman so turned on and so ready for the sex, it also helps you get relaxed and in the moment. [Read how foreplay can increase your time in bed]
Making foreplay more fun and enjoyable
Don’t be in hurry to get to penetrative sex.
Take your time and enjoy foreplay with your woman.
This way your sex is going to be more intense and pleasurable.
Women have a lot of sensitive spots all over their bodies.
In fact, the entire female body – from head to toe – is one big erogenous zone.
So, instead of skipping the foreplay and rushing to sex, kiss your woman passionately and take your time to explore her entire body…
…caress her hot spots, her neck, earlobes, chest, breast, nipples, down her tummy, her inner thighs…
…in fact, lavish her entire body. [Discover the 17 pleasure spots your woman desperately wants you to touch]
And I guarantee you, you’re going to enjoy the sex and make your experience the best orgasms ever.
To fully satisfy your woman during sex and become the lover she’s always dreamed of, you need to spend more time on foreplay to get her blood flowing and ready for an orgasm she will remember for the rest of her life.
This will have your woman begging for the opportunity to have sex with you.
What more could you ask for than amazing sex and a devoted and loving partner?
I don’t know about you, but it sounds like the best thing that could ever happen to any man.
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