Female ejaculation, as the name implies, is when a woman ejaculates right before or during an orgasm.
It is also known as squirting or gushing.
Most men and women believe that female ejaculation does not exist. They have the idea that men are the only ones who ejaculate.
But this is truly not the case… female ejaculation is also possible.
A woman can also ejaculate during sex. And it occurs right before or with an orgasm.
In this blog post, not only do I bust the myth about female ejaculation, I also share with you what it really is, where it comes from, and how to make it a reality for your woman.
What is Female Ejaculation?
Female ejaculation is a clear, water-like fluid that comes out the urethra right before or with an orgasm. (The urethra is the duct through which urine is discharged)
Stimulation of the G-spot leads to female ejaculation.
The amount of fluid a woman ejaculates varies. Some women ejaculate just a few drops; others ejaculate more fluid and push farther into the air. Some might even drizzle out a little clear fluid without even noticing.
How farther a woman ejaculates depends on:
- Her level of arousal
- The type of stimulation, and
- How strong her PC muscles are. The stronger her PC muscles the farther her ejaculation, and pleasurable her orgasms.
Why female ejaculation is not pee
Most men and women believe that women don’t ejaculate and that they are just peeing.
But the fact is, it is impossible for a woman to pee when she is fully aroused. This is the same with men; it is impossible for a guy to urinate when he has a full erection.
When a woman is fully aroused, a ring of muscle called the sphincter contracts to close off the bladder. This makes it impossible for urine to come out.
As mentioned earlier, stimulation of the G-spot leads to female ejaculation… it doesn’t release urine.
Now, the G-spot is so close to the urethra… when a woman is fully aroused, it fills with fluid, making it swell and become larger. And it is at this point that an intense stimulation will cause the woman to feel the need to pee.
Where does the fluid come from?
The fluid a woman ejaculates comes from her Skene’s gland found in the G-spot area along the walls of the urethra.
During sexual arousal, the Skene’s gland fills with the ejaculation fluid and empties into the urethral canal.
Because the urethral canal is the duct through which urine is discharged, female ejaculation is going to have that same sensation as the urge to pee.
And for those who have the notion that women ejaculate out the vagina, this is also false. A woman ejaculates out the urethra.
Read More: How to Stimulate the G-Spot
How to Make a Woman Ejaculate
You can make a woman ejaculate with your fingers, G-spot sex toys or during intercourse.
She can also ejaculate multiple times in a single session.
First, let’s look at how to make a woman ejaculate with your fingers:
Start out by getting her aroused.
Spend at least 20 minutes on foreplay to get her fully aroused.
Since female ejaculation is dependent on her getting highly aroused, it certainly helps if she is more orgasmic…
…so you can also give her a clitoral orgasm before you start the deed. [Read how to give a girl or a woman a clitoral orgasm]
Now, have her lay on her back with legs open.
Insert your middle finger into her vagina with your palm facing upward. You can use your two middle fingers.
Find her G-spot…
…it is a mound of flesh inside her vagina on the front wall.
It’s about one to two inches or about a knuckle and a half to two knuckles past her vaginal opening.
It will balloon out now that she’s aroused and orgasmic. [Read how to find the G-spot]
Lightly massage the G-spot using the pad of your finger(s) in a come-hither motion.
You will feel the G-spot swelling up and become more rigid as you continue to stimulate it.
Stimulate her G-Spot and clitoris at the same time to get her more aroused.
Engage her hot spots as well…
…gently caress her breasts and nipples with your tongue or fingers.
When you can tell she is about to orgasm, increase the speed and pressure of your stroking. You can tell she is about to orgasm from her body language or the noises she makes.
At this point, almost every woman will tighten her PC muscle and prevent herself from ejaculating.
Female ejaculation has the same sensation as the urge to pee… so she will prevent herself from ejaculating thinking she is preventing herself from urinating.
Assure her that it is normal for her to feel that way.
Tell her she is not going to pee but rather she is going to ejaculate.
Tell her it’s okay if she pees too… even if she’s convinced that it is pee. And when she does it will turn you on, plus she will experience a powerful squirting orgasm.
Keep stroking her G-spot and tell her to relax her PC muscle and push out.
You will feel her pushing your fingers out of her. Take out your fingers and she will ejaculate.
Slide your fingers back in immediately after she ejaculates… then stimulate her some more and wait until you feel her pushing out again.
Do this over and over again and she can just keep ejaculating more and more.
Keep Reading: How to Finger Your Woman to Orgasmic Bliss
Now, here is how to make a woman ejaculate during intercourse:
When having sex in the missionary position, put a pillow under her hips to elevate her butt.
You can also get her into a doggy style position and aim the head of your penis down towards her front vaginal wall.
Penetration should be shallow… this puts the head of the penis in contact with the G spot.
Rub against it as you thrust in and out of her.
Keep going like this and she can ejaculate all over you.
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