To be the best lover your woman has ever had, you need to learn how to finger her. Learning how to finger a girl or a woman is one of the most pleasurable, and enjoyable forms of foreplay there is.
A woman can derive great pleasure from a finger working its way inside her vagina.
You’ve gotten your woman horny and wet, and slipped your fingers inside her, what to do you do now?
What parts do you touch and how do you touch them?
In this post, you are going to learn how to finger a girl or a woman to orgasm, or more accurately, how to properly finger a girl or a woman.
You will learn the secret places to touch her and the fingering techniques to use to give her pleasure and orgasms.
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Using your fingers is one of the best and easiest ways to bring your woman to an incredible orgasm.
Fingering is not just about penetration
Before you learn how to finger a girl or a woman, you should know exactly what to do when your fingers are inside her vagina.
The best way to finger your woman is to focus on stimulation rather than penetration… in other words, stimulate her vaginal walls as opposed to just pushing your fingers in and out of her.
Sure, it will feel good for your woman when you are finger-fucking her. But these motions alone won’t build her excitement level to the point where she will have an orgasm…
…this is because you will not be stimulating the sensitive spots inside her vagina.
There are two sensitive spots in the vagina to stimulate:
1. On the vaginal ceiling… a knuckle and a half to two knuckles pass the vaginal opening. This is where the G-spot is.
2. The deepest point on the front vaginal wall, above the cervix… this is the deep spot or the second G-spot a.k.a. the A-spot, and it is sensitive all around. Stimulating this area can lead to rapid vaginal lubrication and arousal.
Also, keep in mind that majority of the sensitive nerve endings that will increase her excitement and bring her to an orgasm are near the entrance of the vagina.
So the deeper you go doesn’t necessarily mean the better it feels… unless you are going for the deep spot (the spot above the cervix).
Keep Reading: How to Find Your Woman’s G-Spot
One of the best ways to finger your woman is the come-hither motion…
…this is when you curl and un-curling the tip of your finger over and over again.
Since you now know that the most sensitive spots in the vagina are the vaginal ceiling and the spot above the cervix, then stimulating it with the come-here motion is most effective in building up orgasmic sensation.
Aside from fingering a woman in a come-here motion, you can also press firmly against the vaginal ceiling and stroke it from side-to-side, or in circles.
Plus, you can also finger her in and out… but again, you should not finger-fuck her. Instead, press the pad of your finger against the vaginal ceiling and go in and out rubbing against the G-spot.
With that said, let’s get started on how to finger a girl or a woman to orgasms…
Now before you finger someone:
- Make sure your hands are well manicured. Your fingernails are short and filed smooth.
- Make sure she is aroused and warmed up before inserting your fingers inside her.
- Make sure you use plenty of lubes. Don’t expect her pussy to be automatically moist. If she isn’t wet, lubricant your fingers with a good lubricant. Click here to grab a lube now.
Now, let’s get started…
How to Finger a Girl or a Woman to Orgasm
Begin by running your fingers gently across her genitals…
…run your finger lightly across the clitoral hood. Slide up and down the sides of her clitoris. Rub backward and forward over her labia. Lightly stimulate her perineum (the area between the anus and vaginal opening).
The surface of the vulva contains most of the nerve endings. So take the time to arouse the whole genital area. This will increase her excitement and get her wet and warmed up for the act. You can even stimulate her clitoris with your fingers to get her wet and horny for your fingers inside her.
Two minutes into arousing her genital area and getting her sexually excited and wet, gently insert one finger inside her vagina.
Again, make sure she is wet or your fingers are well lubricated.
Aiming for the G-spot
Insert a finger about a knuckle and a half to two knuckles pass the vaginal opening.
With your palm facing upwards, press against the upper vaginal wall. This area is wondrously sensitive and stimulating there will intensify your woman’s pleasure.
You don’t have to go for the G-spot right away… feel around and gently massage the vaginal ceiling in circular strokes, side-to-side, or in a come-hither motion.
When she is aroused enough, you will feel a raised, spongy area on the front wall. Use a come-here motion and stimulate this spot, almost like you are trying to pull it out of her.
Start with one finger and work your way to two fingers when you can tell she is enjoying it.
Stimulate this area with a firm pressure at a moderate speed. And gradually increase the speed and pressure as she gets more and more aroused…
…and she will orgasm in no time. [Read how to stimulate the G-spot]
Aiming for the deep spot
You can also go deeper with your middle finger. This is where the deep spot is.
Use the come-here motion to stimulate this area too. Avoid touching her cervix.
Stimulate this area with a firm pressure at a moderate speed as well. And gradually increase the speed and pressure as she gets more and more aroused…
…and she will orgasm in no time. [Read how to stimulate the A-spot]
Keep in mind that you can give your woman incredible orgasms from just one spot. So instead of stimulating both spots at the same time, focus on giving her pleasure from one spot at a time.
Aside from stimulating the vaginal ceiling, you can also stimulate the left and right wall, and the vaginal floor.
Pay attention to her body language. Or you can ask her to tell you whether or not she likes what you are doing.
As she gets more aroused, increase the pressure and the speed of your stimulation.
When you can tell she is about to experience an orgasm, continue with the exact same pressure, speed, and motion until she orgasms.
If you stop and change your technique, she can lose her orgasm.
When you feel a vaginal contraction, it means she is about to orgasm. Keep on fingering her at the same speed and pressure, and she will have a vaginal orgasm.
So this is how to finger a girl or a woman.
Take heart in the fact that you can give a woman powerful orgasms with just your fingers, so do learn how to finger a girl or a woman properly.
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When she feels the need to pee
Stimulating the vaginal ceiling (the G-spot) might feel weird to her – as if she is about to pee.
Most women will tighten up their PC muscle and prevent themselves from squirting thinking they are about to pee. [Read about the female ejaculation: the powerful explosive orgasm]
Tell her it is normal and that is how it feels when a woman is about to ejaculate.
Assure her she is not going to pee, but rather she is going to squirt. And when she lets go of her PC muscle and pushes out, she is going to experience a powerful squirting orgasm.
When you feel her G-spot swelling and she is pushing you out of her, it means she is about to squirt.
Remove your finger and it will be followed by squirting.
So there you have it… how to finger a girl or a woman.
Take this newly discovered knowledge of how to finger a girl or a woman into your relationship and give your wife powerful orgasms with just your fingers.
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