Anal sex is extremely exciting. If you want to learn how to have anal sex in order to give your woman a mind-blowing anal experience, then this post is for you.
In this post, I share with you how to have anal sex with your woman.
The anus has a lot of nerve endings and is a sensitive part of the female body.
Keep in mind that the anus is lined with tissue and muscle that connects it to the clitoris. And this is part of the reason why anal stimulation feels pleasurable to a woman.
Before you begin
Discuss it with your woman first.
It’s important she agrees to have anal intercourse beforehand.
Trying to penetrate her anus when she is not ready and receptive can be painful and uncomfortable for her.
Plus, there are two major reasons your woman will object to having anal sex.
First, she thinks it’s going to hurt… and yes it will if not done right. And secondly, she is uncomfortable with what you will see in there… you know.
So you will need to help her overcome this fear and concern.
To do that:
- Take a shower together before sex. It will make her feel fresher and cleaner.
- Get her to try some anal toys… to get used to not only the pleasure of anal play but the feeling of having your penis in her butthole.
- And if you are both concerned about a little fecal matter, use an enema bulb or douches to clean the anus… or use a condom.
Working your way around
At times it could be difficult talking to your woman about having anal sex with her. So the best way to go about this is to:
- Take a shower together then deliberately wash her anus with soap and water… she will get the message.
- Graze her anus with your fingertip during sex. Then deliberately insert a fingertip into her anus when she is having a real orgasm. This will get her to associate anal intercourse or anal penetration with pleasure.
Don’t force your woman if she doesn’t want to have anal intercourse, or if she objects to touching her anal area.
With time she will be willing to try it.
With that said, let’s get started on how to have anal sex with your woman.
How to Have Anal Sex
Start out with foreplay and get her sexually excited…
…fondle her breasts, suck on her nipples, kiss her belly down to her genital area and even go down on her and get her more aroused and turned on.
Tease her more by gently circling around the anal area with a lubricated finger… don’t insert your finger into her ass just yet.
Getting into it…
If you can tell she is enjoying having your finger around her anal area, use your tongue to lick and probe her anal area.
Lick from her perineum and into the anal area.
You can also insert the tip of your tongue into her anus… this will build up her arousal level and further increase her excitement.
Use an anal lubricant
Moisten your fingers and the anal passage with a good anal lubricant… use lots of it.
Make sure your hands are clean… and your fingernails are short or trimmed and filed at the edges to avoid bruising the anus. (You want your woman to enjoy the experience, not get the nastiest infection.)
Slowly insert your lubricated finger into her anus to get her used to the feeling of having your finger in her ass.
Start out slowly…
…and don’t push too far too fast.
Move your finger in and out and in circles to stretch the entrance to the anus.
This will enhance her pleasure and she will crave your dick in her ass.
When it’s time to penetrate her with your penis, do so slowly and gently.
Stay still and let her control the movement at the beginning… this way she can relax her anus to accommodate your full manhood.
If you have a small penis, you can slide in and go deeper. But, if you are on the bigger side, then let her decide how deep she can take it.
Once it’s in, thrust back and forth slowly and carefully.
Take it extremely slowly and stop if she says it hurts.
If she says it hurts, withdraw and apply more lubricant before going back in there again.
While you are thrusting back and forth, use a finger that has not been in her ass to stimulate her clitoris… and you are guaranteed to give her a mind-blowing anal pleasure.
So this is how to have anal sex.
Practicing Safe Anal Sex
The anus contains bacteria and it should not come in contact with the vagina.
Never put anything that has been inside her anus into the vagina.
Never have vaginal sex right after anal sex without careful washing your penis first.
Disinfect any anal sex toys that have been in her anus.
Keep in mind that a woman doesn’t naturally lubricate down there… so always use plenty of lubricant designed for anal intercourse to make the experience pleasurable for your woman.
Penetrating her ass too fast too hard can cause tears and abrasions to the lining of the rectum. So make sure your thrusting movements are slow and gentle.
For extra protection, slip on a condom.
So there you have it – how to have anal sex.
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